erm mon got mb test.
i got to study for it.
i dun like mb. dun feel like studying.
ytd meet sharon joyce for lunch.
we tok alot. now so many frens tell me their stories.
i noe i'm nt e only person having this problem.
in a relationship, somehow there will be a expressive n non-expressive person.
being the non-expressive one will feel tt is okie nt to contact all e time.
as long as we love each other can alr.
usually they dun hve too many actions.
silent... they think tt got things to say then tok nth then dun need to call.
no action doesnt mean dun care or dun love u. becuz they r non expressive.
their words got very deep meanings in it. nt juz surface. u muz really understand them
in order to feel assured.

as for e expressive person. tt person will feel tt if a couple nv contact there is something wrong in e rs. but in fact is nt to e non expressive one.
expressive feel tt is impt to show actions so tt love is there care is there.
no action make them feel tt e partner no longer love them or care abt them.
n start to worry.
expressive need alot of concern frm e partner. need attention.
no reply frm e partner will make them feel very upset.

to e non expressive one, too much msg calls care n concern make them feel stressful n burden.
when they cannot take it they will give up. they feel tt is too much for them to handle.
they will feel tt their partner shld look for someone tt is able to return so much care n concern back to them. trying to let go of their partner to look for someone else. but in fact their partner dont wish to find another person as they feel tt their partner is e right person for them juz tt they got different ways of handling things. as long as one adapt, nth will go wrong. is e same in every couple relationship. seldom to find tt there r both non ones couple n both expressive ones.
i feel tt if both non ones e relationship will be stagnant boring n they wont bother much abt each other. both expressive ones they will take things for granted n too sticky to each other tt their world only contain 2 of them.
being one expressive n one non one, things will b different.
rs shld hve up n down, too smooth something is goin wrong.
so expressive ones learn adapt, non one feel e love frm them n also still love them.
this kind of relationship shld b better although things is slightly harder for e expressive ones.
but to me e expressive ones r willing cuz they love their partner for being who they are.

so in order to maintain a rs. e expressive one muz learn how to understand e non ones n noe
how they feel abt a situation. they cannot keep pestering e non ones. muz lighten their burden
make them feel tt havin this rs is happy. no stress no burden n there is still love n care.
tt why e expressive ones always hve to learn things n understand lot of things along e process.
able to adapt to e non ones behaviours n feelings, adapt to changes.
is usually e expressive ones tt will understand n adapt.
is always a tough process for them but sooner or later they can adapt to it.
n this will really maintain a rs.

i ask expressive n non ppl abt this. their replies are really e same. expressive ones r e ones tt learn n understand during the rs. e non ones r those tt remain e same. they remain e same in their way of dealing with things.

i'm trying to adapt, learn n understand along this rs process.
time is so impt to me. although is difficult but i'm willing to undergo this process
cuz i love him n love e way he is.